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<\/p>\nMy Mother was the baby in her family. She had seven adoring siblings and all the attention in the world. She had five older brothers and two elder sisters. She was her family\u2019s little princess. She was spoilt, got away with blue murder, and she knew no darkness in her childhood.<\/p>\n
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My Mother hardly knew a day\u2019s work in her life. She finished school, then worked part time at a local grocery store. She lived at home till the day she married. However, on that day her charmed life came to an abrupt end. The day she married my Father. The Princess married the Pedophile.<\/p>\n
My Mother was instantly mesmerized by my Father. She was a good girl, and he was a charmer, all the girls wanted to be hanging off his arm. He knew how to charm the ladies. It was a skill he had been perfecting for quite a few years before he met my Mother, and like every good spider, he knew how to spin his web and catch his prey.<\/p>\n
At the time my Father met my Mother, he was an accomplished pedophile and had escaped serious kidnap and sexual assault charges – the victim had died in a car accident. My Father was also raping his youngest sister, who was about 14 years younger than him.<\/p>\n
My Mother through either seduction or premeditation, soon found herself pregnant. My Mother\u2019s parents were devastated and my Father for once in his life was trapped. He was forced into a shotgun wedding. Even my Father couldn\u2019t escape that one! My Mothers five elder brothers made sure of that.<\/p>\n
However, this mistake they carried to their graves with them. The stigma of having a pedophile and a rapist in their family was a burden they had forced on their own family through this marriage.<\/p>\n
This son in-law, this brother in-law, they had brought into the family was from the wrong side of the tracks. Little did they know how far from the tracks he was. My Father was always working on his next victim and he hunted them (and soon to be me) like a rabid dog.<\/p>\n
For my Mother, there was no white wedding dress, she wore a bottle-green day suit, no wedding reception, no presents, and she held a bouquet – positioned perfectly – to hide her illegitimate love child. As soon as the wedding service was over, my Father drove my Mother away from the good side of town, over the railway tracks to the rough side of the same town.<\/p>\n
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They had a home in the Housing Commission (slum) area of town, where my Father had free range of children who were shoved out the door the minute they were dressed. Their parents were not too worried if they didn\u2019t turn up for dinner at night \u2013 it was one less mouth to feed. Children who were not expected to succeed, who would predominantly follow the same path their parents traveled \u2013 down the wrong tracks – and whose life would become an endless cycle of \u2018wash, rinse and repeat\u2019.<\/p>\n
I often wonder was it that drive on her wedding day that took her from living a decent life with an adoring family to her first trip into Hell\u2026or was it those railway tracks that divided the good side of town from the impoverished side of town and led her down into a life of hell?<\/p>\n
Hell has its own price to pay. Her dignity, her pride and her self-worth are handed over like a fake passport. The woman I called Mummy styled a new set of rules she could live with. \u2018If you can\u2019t beat \u2019em , join \u2019em!\u2019 My Mummy embraced her new twisted way of life and thrived in the joy of torturing me with great skill. After all, I was my Mummy\u2019s competition and Mummy was never happy \u2018til she drew blood.<\/p>\n
Be kind to yourself,<\/p>\n
Love Big Fat Dee<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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